Easy Love

 Easy Love

              I wish love was easy. I wish I could say that in life you will magically meet someone whom you will fall in love with, and they will love you too and you both will live happily ever after. And sometimes, that is the case. I wish that it was the ca, se all the time, but it is not. You are bound to fall in love time and time again for people who are not good for you, for people who do not value you as much as they should, for people who do not want you even though you would give the world to them. And there will come a time when they will want you, but your heart will no longer beat for them, where you will try and try but your feelings will not develop, and you will have no other choice than to break their heart.

                    I wish things were simple. I wish love was simple. But it is not. Life is complicated and relationships even more so. We hurt others and get hurt and we shatter more often than not, but it is not all for nothing. We grasp truths about life and teach others many truths too and through it all, we grow and grow until we become the best version of ourselves. Yes, we will make mistakes. Yes, we will continue to get hurt and do a little hurting as well. But we are human, and we are constantly growing and learning from our mistakes.

                      I wish relationships were easy. I wish life was easier. But it is not, and the best way to grasp it all is to accept the bad parts and soak in all the good. The best way to live through the heartache and every trouble in life is to become stronger, and to learn to accept that things will not always go the way we want them to, but sometimes they will, and it is those little moments of happiness and love that must we live for. I wish love was easy, but it is not. Love is like holding a bucketload of struggles as you stride forward, driving you to the brink of confusion, but then the bucket gets lighter as the struggles pour  into the road one by one, and you rise with a surety of yourself that manages to silence any self-daubt that you had. You no longer question whether you deserve love because you know that you do. You no longer think about what love means because the difficult path that you took has taught you everything that you had to know, the path that you took has shown you what love is and what it is not.

                      And that is what makes love the most beautiful experience in the world. That is what allows us to want it in our lives and that is what makes us appreciate love more and more.