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  Easy Love                 I wish love was easy. I wish I could say that in life you will magically meet someone whom you will fall in love with, and they will love you too and you both will live happily ever after. And sometimes, that is the case. I wish that it was the ca, se all the time, but it is not. You are bound to fall in love time and time again for people who are not good for you, for people who do not value you as much as they should, for people who do not want you even though you would give the world to them. And there will come a time when they will want you, but your heart will no longer beat for them, where you will try and try but your feelings will not develop, and you will have no other choice than to break their heart.                     I wish things were simple. I wish love was simple. But it is not. Life is complicated and relationships even more so. We hurt other...

Regardless           Do not let someone else's negativity  cloud your mind, and do not let their perception of life constrain yours . It is true that everyone is a reflection of their experiences, they have grown and changed and altered because of the years they left behind. However it is up to you whether you reflect light or darkness. You choose whether you want your bad experiences to build you and you choose whether it is the good. People can only break us as much as we let them. We are the one whose opinions and choices matter, not them.                Do not lose your Self worth because of another's person's distorted perception of you. Their opinions do not determine  your value - only yours do. You are someone who has the potential to be complete in yourself. You do not need another person to tell you whether you are worth caring about, or investing time into, or loving. Because you should already know th...

  No Regrets                  The truth is - I still do not regret you.                          Meeting you was the one the best things that has ever happened to me. You brought positivity, love and sunshine into my life. You showed me how to see the world in a different way altogether, and you made me stronger, wiser and kinder. You showed me that my dreams were valid , and you made me realize my worth. And the best part is - you did not do any of these things on purpose, they just happened. c Me changing this much was a by product of our friendship, of everything that you could do by just being there.                And I always be greatful  to you for that. You allowed me to develop a better mindset and you added incredible value to me as someone who can contribute to the wellbeing of those around them. You showed me that one...

The Honest Truth Unfortunately, at least once in your life you will hurt someone very deeply, even if you do not want to. You will have to look into their eyes and tell them a truth that could potentially break them. But you will do it anyway because deep down you will know that despite the hurt your Truth will cause, it will have the potential  to create so much goodness later in their life.            I know that a lot of us feel guilty when we cause someone pain either by telling them something that will affect them or carrying out an action that they do not like. It makes us feel bad because we are good Human beings. Aren't we? And good Human beings do not hurt others, do they?  Essentially, how good or bad you are is not determined by a small act of hurtfulness that you  cause but would like to avoid. Because unfortunately, we all play a part in the hard lessons that other people learn - even if we do not want to. I know that you do not ...

Love (Part 1)           Love is not supposed to feel like pain. Like there is a stone rammed so hard inside your chest that even breathing hurts. Love is not supposed to break you into a thousand pieces at night. Only to meet you in the morning and break you more. Or make you feel like everything in your life is over and you have now here to go. Like those nights when you will do anything to stop hurting, to make it all go away. Love is not supposed to make you feel worthless. No.           Love is supposed to build you, you should grow with the person that you love - Not diminish. Love should not kill your soul but fill you with life. Love is not supposed to feel like you have daggers twisting in your heart and tears as proof on your cheeks. No. Love is supposed to   feel like the wind that allows you to fly. Love is supposed to soften you, not turn you into stone. Love is supposed to show you that you are worth everything, no...

A Miracle           When I look at you, I see someone who shines with strength and resilience. I see a human being who has experienced so much pain in a short span of a life that it is unbelievable that you became this way. It is unbelievable how you can be this kind, this giving and filled with enough care for others that sometimes you fall short of loving yourself. Sometimes I am unable to comprehend what made you this Person. Was it pain, anguish or the loss of loved ones? What is it that keeps you going, despite it all? Despite every obstruction and each Difficult decision that you have had to make, how can you continue to be a wonderful soul  that everyone wants a piece of? I cannot understand it. I just cannot.              Because when I look at you, I see endless nights of tearsoaked pillows and a lifetime of shoulders burdened with lessons that made you wiser than your years. When I look at you, I see a Person cou...